Dude, given all the ranting about millennials on another thread, it seemed that we should present a more fair and balanced approach to reporting. Sorry if you took it personally.
BTW, you missed a couple beyond just having a hard time getting the shoes tied - you can't see or hear for ****. Plus, you have to put up with being stereotyped just because you have a little snow on the roof. I was in the young punk eye doctor's the other day and he was telling me that I had a Cadillac - yea, they may be popular with some older people, but I'm quite happy driving my Ford. And, I can still manage a stick shift - thank you very much!
Well, I don't generally get my panties in a bunch over stuff like this, and you're right, the millennial thread is similar. Let me start off by stating that I'm a millennial, and I took no offense to the thread because I completely agree with it. My generation has serious issues. The difference between that thread and yours is that millennials can still do something about their problems, and can be held accountable. Old people are just trying to hang in there and do the best they can. They can't help their situation, and they would give anything to do something about it. I get frustrated with them sometimes too, but when I do, I try to remember that this individual might have fought in Bastogne, flew Corsairs in the Pacific, froze his butt off in Korea, or maybe ran a bustling business down the street, maybe taught generations of young people at the school, or coached basketball, or preached at the church, or whatever. Maybe they didn't live an extraordinary life at all, but the point is that just a few years ago, this person was likely very different, and it's likely that this person was someone interesting and likeable, but now can just barely get to and from the grocery store to get the necessities of life. I get worked up about it because I've had this attitude before, and the old person in question turned out to be an amazing individual. I remember how bad I felt as a 21 year old Sherwin-Williams employee when I got extremely frustrated at an 88 year old man, and lost my temper a little bit on account of his inability to think more quickly. I was terribly embarrassed when I found out he was a dive bomber commander that helped splash several Japanese ships in the Pacific. He brought pics and showed me his log books and everything. I learned a valuable lesson that day. I have other examples, but I'll spare you this time. It doesn't matter if they turn out to be a war veteran or a homemaker, they deserve our patience with them. We'll all be there someday if we don't die young.
I suppose the second thing that is upsetting is that you are a gray haired individual yourself. I would expect someone with "snow on the roof", to be a little more mature about such things. I'd wouldn't be surprised to hear this kind of rant from a Millennial or Gen Z, but I would expect an older guy to have more class. I guess Millennials aren't so bad after all when it comes to respect for elders.
Instead of getting frustrated and griping, why not offer some assistance when you encounter one of these people. 9 times out of 10, you'll probably make their day. There's a chance they are one of those old farts that don't want no help, but you'll be better for it.
Anyway, please pardon the counter rant. This one just rubbed me the wrong way.
Edit: I realize that there are those that are actually jerks, take advantage of their situation, etc., but at least in my neck of the woods, I think that's the exception rather than the rule. Most of them are very kind, grateful for help, and in some cases, happy to have their existence acknowledged. I think sometimes some of the negative things they do are simply for attention. Remember, if they are really old, it's likely that all of their friends and siblings are just as bad off or are dead. The twilight years are extremely lonely for some.