LOL. Ahh to be young again...
We all believed those things once, too, you know.
Your odds are pretty high for both the pay increase and finding the “love of your life”, just going by the statistics. Or at least the love of your first divorce, which the stats are pretty damn high on, too.
But odds being odds, that means there’s a certain percentage that go the other direction, too.
Good friend of mine... entrepreneur... fast track... 20s... making big bucks... moved to chase a startup that truly sounded great... got married... went well for about three years. World was his oyster....
Life arrived. Wife fell into depression and suicidal tendencies with a family history of severe clinical depression of women in their late 20s and early 30s...
Business he was working for a few people dug in and realized it was a shell company for money laundering and now he’s a listed executive of the firm and aware of the fraud...
Illness strikes and he’s knocked out of commission for six months recovering...
As soon as he’s well he immediately quits the big job and moves far away after finding out not only is it money laundering but those doing it are threatening violence against other people if they talk...
Wife falls further into depression and needs to be treated as in-patient... eventually she requests a divorce but still ends up with half his assets...
And now he’s jobless...
He’s doing great today. Rebuilt his life. New wife, two great kids, lots less money, no longer chases the wild entrepreneur stuff, but still builds new business plans...
He went through seven years of hell.
Young, you THINK nothing like that will happen to you. And you should. Hope springs eternal.
But... the statistics don’t back it up.
They do back it up for your salary increasing at your age, assuming you’re busting it. And I’m sure you are. Experience counts.
The rest? Dice roll. Most of what keeps humans around on the planet is our adaptability.
But it or don’t buy it, but life WILL change. Not always for the better.
Learned to fly at 19. Then later, I didn’t fly for eight years pending fixing some serious misunderstandings I had about finance. Now I know how to feed my aviation habit without bankruptcy. Even slowly starting to get paid to teach it.
I won’t finance anything that depreciates anymore ever, if I can possibly avoid it, unless someone’s giving me one hell of a tax break to even it out.