I went into the IR with a heavy weather background and was still surprised, but thinking back, shouldn't have been, by this simple statement:
IFR doesn't make the weather decision easier, it makes it harder.
Think about it for a minute. You're deciding if you should launch into conditions you'd NEVER have even gone up and looked at VFR.
One other comment... Someone said the IR felt like work, and I agree. It is. It kinda has to be. Think about that one for a minute, too.
When you finish the IR you're showing proficiency in taking a perfectly working airplane aloft in conditions that remove a significant number of "outs" and options available to a VFR pilot, and then landing it with half the instrument panel broken.
It ain't a cakewalk. It can't be.
Mental health wise, I'm super happy to have done it, but there's a significant life effect of burning that much time out of a typical American's already puny vacation hours. If you've read my threads on it, you know I did basically an "accelerated" style over about a total of a week and a half and showed up with a LOT of sim time and some airplane time that was ten years out of date from previous attempts.
Personally, unless you have an incredibly flexible and available CFII, I highly recommend that full-immersion process for recreational pilots. It feels like it "stuck" very well for me, personally anyway.
I got a chance a couple of weeks ago to go fly six back to back different ILS approaches for 1.9 hours on the Hobbs and I was concerned that it had been a while... As expected, real flyable IMC around here is scarce and currency will always be a problem for me.
Afterward, unlike in the training environment, I felt good about it. Not overwhelmed, not overloaded, flew five of the approaches to better standards than the bar I'd set for myself and only one was iffy... vectored through the Localizer and didn't catch it until a dot on the other side.
Still passable, but I'm hard on myself. I know flying an approach someday RIGHT may mean the difference between a good day with an increased heart rate and a very bad day.
What was funny was my co-owner's comment to his wife later... He's been toying with getting his IR for years. He told her later, "I don't know if I want to do that... That's WORK!" Haha. And I didn't even toss myself partial panel stuff... (But will soon... I wanted to make sure things went well with everything working properly first!)
So... Just thoughts. I really think the full-immersion accelerated type training (either customized by a CFII as in my case because of all the previous work, or systems like Ron's employer does... where they take you from start to finish...) is a good way to hammer it into your cranium hard enough it'll really become second nature. Just my opinion.
Save up the bucks, plunk 'me down, and hit it for a week or so like that, and it'll really feel like a LOT of work... But highly rewarding at the end.
This year I may just have to go sit on a beach for a week though... Doing that every year, trading my only vacation time for flight training, would be rewarding and fun to a point, but you really do need a real "turn all the gadgets off and go on a real vacation" once in a while too, or your noggin will be unhappy.
Sure, pros do it all the time... But recreationally you gotta throw some fun in or you're going to burn out.
So fly a bunch for fun and save the sheckles and then go hit it, IMHO. Do NOT allow yourself to spend any pennies from the training jar either. I even have a separate account at my Credit Union for flying/stuff like this... Once $ goes in. It's gone. It doesn't come out until time to do stuff. (And monthly aircraft bills and maintenance, etc...)