The real issue you're going to run into is which regulator to use. I have the SkyOx, but it uses a different type of regulator than the next most popular, Aerox, and others. For the SkyOx regulator, you set the oxygen flow at the tank and all hoses that you plug in will have the same flow rate. For some of the others, like Aerox, you have a flowmeter for each person, and the flow rate is set individually. There are advantages and disadvantages to each.
The other issue you'll have is which cannula to get. You want one that has an oxygen saving reservoir which both the SkyOx and Aerox include with their standard systems. The Aerox comes with the mustache type reservoir and the SkyOx uses a pendant style. I've only used the pendant style and they work fine. The mustache style looks ridiculous but those I've talked to who have used them seem to think they are just as comfortable.
An oximeter is a nice thing to have and should actually save you oxygen and money over time because it will allow you to set the right flow rate for you. It's also nice to know what your saturation rate is and it takes a bit of the guesswork out of it.