There's not much money in piloting for the median aspirant, imo. For every widebody CA and FO out there there are thousands of participants that will never attain a fraction of that income generation and leverage in their working lives. The only reason people endure that is because of optimism bias and the crushing phobia of working a desk job. I hate riding a desk as much as the next pilot, but I'm not going to ruin my financial solvency or ability to retire at 57 over it. Labeling the former as "having REAL passion" is just petulant bull----t.
The real problem as I see it is, they can't afford the private stuff, so they acquiesce to the RON, terminal-schlepping, perma-commute-from-hell lifestyle in order to afford access to flying where privately they don't have the means to. Put another way, turbine snobbery notwithstanding, if people could afford the cirrus or pressurized 3 mile a minute cruiser, they'd pick their saturdays and sundays off and flying on their own time over sitting gear b^^^ on the right seat of an RJ or guppy fighting chronic boredom, 14 nights a month a' goner for 80-100k/yr (when amortized for 10 prior years of food stamp wages).
It's the cost of the private stuff that motivates most commercial aspirants to behave the way they do, myelf included, whether they care to admit it or not. It has [modern private GA] become largely outside the purview of the median income household. That wasn't the case in 1970; which stands to reason as it was circa that year that we began getting paid in credit lines in lieu of real wages, and those wages also got diluted amongst an army of women (good bad or indifferent) around the same time. We've been on a national labor surplus ever since. The rest is history.
Once open skies finally cracks the code and the part 121 major airline bastion loses the wage and sacred cow scope fight, then the whole thing will collapse. Flight training entrants will dry up and with it, piston GA will go into the history books. I'll try to hold on to my little Piper Jetprop dreams for as long as I can. At my income level, I just know I'll never get there, so I understand why people seek refuge in turning something fun into a dronish job.