Nick, but I have to take issue with your statement. While I wouldn't go so far as to say that everything is perfect, overall I have found myself generally pleased with the service I get from the FAA. Oklahoma City is not the fastest bunch of people in the world, but they have a system in place that (so far) has gotten me two plastic cards in relatively fast order (I'm waiting for the third as I type). I've been ramp checked by an FAA representative who was courteous, professional, and friendly.
I work with FAA regulations on a daily basis. The majority of the ones I see are logical, and are written in the blood of those who either 1) determined the hard way there should be a regulation or 2) proved that failure to follow the regulation may cost you dearly. Compare this to a number of other industries or activities that are regulated in some way, shape, or form by the government, and I would actually argue that the FAA's regulations are, in many cases, reasonable and logical.
ATC is NOT just an extra set of eyes. When you're flying IFR, they're your only eyes, unless you're one of the folks out there who has TCAS. Even if you did have TCAS, would you really want to be shooting an approach to minimums, knowing that the departure procedure is to follow the back course of the ILS out? How about taking off knowing someone could be on the ILS inbound? When you're in the middle of nowhere, it's probably not a big deal. However for conested airspace, ATC is a life saver. I want to have someone on the other end of the radio when something goes wrong who knows where I am. Maybe around Albuquerque your experience is different, but I have four different bravos within about 90 minutes of flying time from my home base. I have flown in and around those bravos repeatedly, and have been glad to have ATC there. The service they provide is not at all crappy (although I have had a few times when I've had complaints, and filed my ASRS reports accordingly), and it is one that I have no problem with us paying for.
I don't know how much it actually costs to run all of this. I do believe there is waste in the budget, but infrastructure is really, really expensive. It's going to cost a lot of money to operate. I am personally fine with this, because I do appreciate having it there. Sure, there is a lot of romance and appeals to the days of Sky King when you could fly your T-50 or 310 around and just land wherever you felt like, but that's not how things are, at least not these days.
We as a society should always push for things to be better. Complacency and settling will never show a forward progression in society. That does not mean that we should bash what presently exists. A lot of times, you don't see how a good system works for you because al the things behind the scenes are just that - behind the scenes. They still cost money, time, and effort.