Where do you get this stuff from?
Oh, forty years of handling thousands of personal injury and property damage claims in three states. And you?
Show me the state statues where you can't collect fees.
You have it backwards. Attorney fees are not recoverable unless the statute or case law of the particular jurisdiction says they are. I won't write a law review article for you here, but you are welcome to Google "American Rule", for a start. Washington has a curious statute, a holdover from a previous era, in which the prevailing party (as defined by statute) in certain cases may claim an "attorney fee", but it is limited to $200 (RCW 4.84.080). That won't get you very far in any substantial claim, and certainly is not enough to scare an insurance company. I gather from your screen name that you are in North Carolina. That state has a statute (NCGS Sec. 6-21.1) that provides for award of attorney fees up to $10,000 in certain cases, if there is "unwarranted refusal by the defendant to negotiate or pay the claim." That's a much higher standard than is in most disputes, and requires a detailed finding of fact by the court.
Carriers ROUTINELY pay liability claims.
Carriers pay claims when it is in their business interest to do so, or when forced to by a judgment against their insured. It all comes down to a four-letter word: Risk. They analyze every claim carefully, and project what what it may cost them to defend the claim, what is the likelihood of a successful result, and what it may cost them if they lose. They study trends of jury verdicts in that jurisdiction. They research the trial histories of the attorneys and experts involved. They investigate carefully to find ways they can beat the claim, or negotiate the lowest possible payout. Whatever it is, they've been there and done that. Like the guy in the Farmers Insurance ad says, "We know a thing or two because we've seen a thing or two."
Sometimes a new VP of claims comes along and decides they need to "get tough" and not settle any substantial claim, and make all the claimants file lawsuits and go through the discovery process at least, if not arbitration or trial. Then a couple of years later, when the company realizes they're spending a ton on defense counsel, and everybody is overworked, and they want to get some files off the shelf, they'll start negotiating semi-reasonable settlements again. Then the real estate market drops, affecting the company's profits, and they tighten their belts again.
Let's distill it down to an all-too-typical, real-world example. Fellow walked into my office one day clutching a letter from an insurance company (I won't mention which one, but there might have been a little green lizard standing nearby). His car was totaled, and he was injured, in an accident where the other driver ran a red light, as confirmed by two independent witnesses. He just wanted the insurance company to pay for his car, and he'd suck up the rest and go on his way. Slam dunk, right? Automatic payment, no questions asked, right? This is part of an actual photocopy of the letter the other driver's insurance company sent him:
So the lizard only wanted to pay half of the guy's damages. It took two years, filing of a lawsuit against the other driver, interrogatories, depositions, requests for production, requests for admission, a compulsory examination by the insurance company's doctor, and finally an arbitration award to make them do the right thing. And no, they didn't have to pay my client's attorney fee, beyond the aforesaid $200 under RCW 4.84.080. I knew the defense attorney well enough to know that his heart wasn't in it; he was acting on marching orders from the company.
Drag out until the statue of limitations expire to get out of a claim...I can't write this good to make this stuff up.
Get real. Can't tell you how many times I've had a phone call like this:
Prospective Client: "My wife and I were in a horrible accident on I-205 in Portland. We were both injured, we have over $100,000 in medical bills not covered by our insurance; I was out of work for seven months and our car was totaled. But the insurance company adjuster said they'd take care of us -- he's a real nice guy and promised to get back to us as soon as they reviewed all the medical records, tax returns and stuff he asked us to send. He even sent us a nice Christmas card and said he'd call us as soon as he got back from vacation. But that was a couple of months ago and now he won't return my call. Do you think I need a lawyer?"
Me: "When was your accident?"
PC: "Um, two years ago last Thursday. Why ... is that a problem ... ?"
Meanwhile, that adjuster now has the "Employee of The Month" parking space.
Bottom line ... the OP needs to find out what his rights are from an attorney, not SGOTI.