mikea said:
Thanks all.
One thing that keep me from making phone calls is that I'm not in a hurry. The biggest deadline is to nearer to the plane come next spring. I can deal with that one. I don't need to have a broker to keep after me and wonder if I'm just a time waster.
The dilemma is I don't really care what town it is. I'm thinking that there are undiscovered areas that haven't upgraded downtown to 2 Starbucks yet. I just drove through and saw that the town where the airport is just did that. The A&W is gone to be replaced by rows of concrete block facades of boutiques.
I just drove around trying to figure out where these towns are and how they connect, and tried to gauge what the driving times would be like. The biggest surprise is there are a lot of new train stations to take you downtown, which is one of my needs for the moment.
I had thought to get the local papers to check out the local politicians and see which towns were outlawing breathing while different.
I read a while ago that one town announced it was going to ticket anybody doing 26 in the 25 MPH zone. I'm not interested in that town, even though one of my amusements is to set the cruise at 25 (I can't cruise at 25 manually in the Mustang - there's no gear to choose for that) and watch the SUV mamas behind me fume.
I think I can go on the web and see what the city councils are up to lately.
I'll start a database and keep notes of what I find.
I think you are off to a good start. My wife and I started looking when we noticed that the third child was on the way. It took a year. We looked in many different places. We used the internet to research schools and neighborhoods. We drove around for hours - not really a chore as it is the best way to get the kids to nap. When we found a house that we thought would be interesting we called the listing broker and asked to see it. Remember the broker represents the seller. They have DUTY to get the most money possible for the SELLER. You want to pay the least possible. We found that the local (and very large) Prudential broker had an excellent web site and we could find most listings without the need to invovle a broker.
Don't be in a hurry. Don't settle for less than you want. There will always be another house. I read somewhere that the average home in the U.S. is owned by the same person for only 7 years. Think about it, on the average 14% of all the homes in any given neighborhood will be sold each year. Our priorities were commuting time and school district and we paid for those qualities, but we think it was worth it.
Adam Z handled the title work and did a fantastic job. That is another thing, the realtors often have captive title insurance companies and captive vendors for other services. They will generally try to "make your life easier" by offering to help you with these things and then steering the work to their company. They are not completely dishonest about it, but they are not particularly up front either. They ask you to sign a statement saying they have disclosed that they "may" recommend "affiliated" companies. Then they will do everything they can to get you to use those companies. I cannot tell you the number of times we said to the broker "is that a legal requirement?" and they said well no of course you can use another vendor.
Example:
Broker: Congratulations the seller accepted your offer. We'll have the paperwork drawn up tomorrow. We'll arrange the home inspection and the title work.
Unstated is: a) they will give the business to their company, b) they will not be serving your interest by seeking a better price or better quality.
It is lawful but you should be very aware of it since it is often Not in your best interest.
Remember, the seller pays the commission and the whole real estate sales industry is geared towards satisfying its duty of loyalty to the seller. Do not get fooled by a cooperating broker telling you they represent your interests, they do not, and usually are not legally allowed to. They try all sorts of tricks. They have very lengthy meaningless buyer broker agreements. They are meaningless because they rarely disclaim the duty of loyalty to the seller. They are misleading because they imply that the broker will be loyal to you.
There are in actuality some true "buyers broker" out there, but if they EVER work on the selling side of transactions then even if they are truly representing you (i.e. getting paid other than through the selling commission) they will have an unspoken desire to protect that part of their business. This unspoken desire may lead them to work just a little less aggresively because after all, they may need to deal with the seller's broker on another deal and they don't want to ruffle feathers.
So, be careful. Do your own legwork. Protect yourself. Beware of pressure tactics and unstated loyalties. This is capitalism and the whole real estate sales industry exists for only one purpose - to make money for the real estate sales industry.