Faced with the awesome destructive aftermath of a lightning strike up close, it is tempting to be fatalistic regarding the process, and outcome, of it all. But, with a bit of Ben Franklin-level electrical theory, and years of experience in, e.g., cell tower protection, ordinary folks can and do protect themselves quite well from atmospheric electric phenomena.
The IEEE book previously referred to is pretty good regarding mitigation strategies. For more on motivation, and the magnitudes of energy involved, I like the work of the amateur radio community. Lots of these guys have experience in the cellular tower business. There are 100,000 cell towers in the US; each one of them is engineered to be the tallest thing in its neighborhood. They are routinely struck by lightning, and survive quite handily (For the most part. Failures get the tower maintenance guys booted off the job but quick.).
The lightning bolt can be seen as a bunch of electrons returning to earth from the ionosphere. Figure 25,000 amps; a lot of current. But it's only for a millisecond or 2. You don't need inch-thick copper cables to conduct lightning-level current; #4 is fine, 4-inch strapping is better.
The essays at w8ji.com/lightning.htm are instructive. The topics of earth ground, single-point ground, and bonding are argued, and backed up with dramatic pictures. [He has a 300' tower in his back yard, and a dozen or so antenna cables entering his house. Yes, it's extreme.].
Regarding the original poster's experience: sorry about the loss of your networked stuff. I witnessed a direct stroke on my antenna lead-in wire when I was in college; destroyed my receiver, blew out portions of the plaster wall, and melted some AC wiring. Made me a nut on lightning protection.