I tried to keep my nose out, but reached a point where I cannot. I've been on this board for years, and based on the content contributed over a rather good amount of time, by most everyone involved in this chat, I have no idea where you came up with:
It seems you walked into this party, with a head full of preconceived notions, and you're a little more than irritated at the news you've received. You're now thrashing and lashing at those that are correcting your thoughts. I'm sorry for the news you've gotten. Yeah, it kinda sucks. You might have done a little more research before hitting up the AME to get your medical deferred. But you didn't and this is on you.
The system's not perfect, but it exists to keep people out of planes that shouldn't be flying, and it's probably not getting any massive change to it any time soon.
By the way - don't snub sailplanes. They're hella-fun and take lots of skill, arguably more (or different) skills than someone driving a C182 around the skies.