Ok OP, we started with a Ritalin event, which seems to me, if you do and pass the required steps will get you a medical. Then after the docs comment we find a repeated history of mental health consults with at least one med (Wellbutrin) taken for a period of time. It would really help to have all the potential issues up front rather than bit and piece at a time. Have you taken other drugs for mental issues? What else is going on, heart issues, dui, criminal issues? For the type of flying you describe, light sport or ultralight would be fine. But please make good decisions if you pursue flying.
I struggled with how much detail to put into my post. It was already so long I tried to limit it to the things I felt most confused about. For example, I know the FAA doesn't like Wellbutrin and I would need to cease it before doing a medical (which I could do without much impact. It helps my motivation a little, but just slightly more than the way people like to drink caffeine in the morning).
No, I've never had a dui or criminal issues. I don't care for alcohol, only been 'drunk' ~5 times in my entire life. I don't like to j-walk. I'm a capital-R Rule Follower. I'm a workaholic computer geek who was lucky enough to start a company at 27 and sell it at 30, grow out of the geek enough to marry a wonderful wife 12 years ago. Now I have two kids 8/10. I'm an athletic retired young dad who plays a few too many computer games. I learned to do 180s on skis last winter. I'm out there to enjoy life and help the world.
I fully agree with other sentiment in your message.. that aside the procedural issue of whether one can pass a medical or get a sport license is secondary to the more important issue of whether one will be a good and safe pilot. I've read a ton, and watched hours and hours of NTSB fatality investigations, trying to understand what caused airplane fatalities, and whether I can 100% avoid being like these crash victims. Because I'm not going to bother taking a lesson until I feel reasonable sure that, given the right training, I can be a safe pilot.
I'm not leaving my kids fatherless because of my own inability to assess my capabilities or accept my limitations. That's unforgivable. I'm not even sure it's forgivable if I pick up a sport that could kill me at all, even if it's an entirely freak accident. I will need to feel it can be nearly as safe as leisure riding a motorcycle. And since the general statistics say GA is 4x more dangerous than motorcycling per hour, that means I need to convince myself that there is zero chance I will fall into huge swaths of fatal mistakes.
Along these lines, I have a question.. in your (anyone's) opinion....
To be safe, does a private pilot need to be ultra calm, attentive, and in a good state to fly 100% of the time, every day, even when not flying... because it's the most reliable way to make sure that the pilot is in that state on every flying day? (this is how my navy ATC brother-in-law is, and I certainly am not)
Or can a private pilot be aware enough of their state to know when they are "off" (sick, tired, distracted thinking about important stuff) and shouldn't fly, and when they are "focused" and "on" and it would be a good day to fly? (which I certainly am, as I apply this kind of thinking in everything I do)
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As for the "history of mental health consults"...
Outside the world of FAA-class-3-medical, and especially in my family, seeing a mental health professional (therapist / psychiatrist) for tricky life events is a positive choice, not a negative one. My mother has a counselling degree, so we were always encouraged to talk-it-out with an impartial therapist.
This is a problem the FAA is wrangling with right now, as aside the issue of whether any particular pilot *should* be flying, allowing them to get mental health care without fear could potentially help them be better pilots than the are without the care (which is the practical state we are in). I'd personally rather a stressed out pilot be taking a day off in a therapist office not afraid to lose his job, than flying my commercial flight because he's afraid to.
I keep ongoing check-ins with my long-term therapist 2-3 times a year, because in the past talking to him has helped me keep things in perspective to make tens of millions of dollars. And because I cut ties with my father at age 15. And because I don't have many people I can talk to about financial events in my life. And because, why not? Sometimes I get him on a 45 minute call, and in 5 minutes I tell him everything is great and I don't have anything to talk about. As long as I'm just talking and not getting medications, there is literally no downside to talking to my therapist. It's not like his chair is going to have a structural failure and end up in an NTSB report. Flying has dangers, talk-therapy, at worst it's a small waste of time, at best it's helpful. The financial cost of the appointment doesn't matter to me.
I've never touched a world where there is any "stigma" around seeing a therapist, until this class-3-medical thing.
So you might be thinking.... "what does this dude have to talk to a therapist about, if nothing is wrong?"
Here is a recent example, and I'm sorry if this somehow feels bad or boastful. I don't mean it to be. I just want to talk about reality, and also demonstrate why I can't just talk to my ski buddies or the other parents I met through my kids sports about my life stress. A startup I invested in IPOed, and last November (at the market peak) my position was worth $17M. I didn't sell. Today, it's worth just over $3M. In a way, in the course of 3 months, I lost $14 million dollars, or some sizable chunk of that. This is not life altering for me, but is pretty noticeable. One can buy a heck of a nice hangar of fun airplanes for $14M. So you can imagine, I had some pretty strong emotions about this when I realized their stock crash was not transitory, but that I'd missed the big window to cash out. So I talked to my therapist about it. Because, well, it's unpleasant. And because it's healthier for my marriage to unload some of that on my therapist instead of my wife.
My therapist appointments are not indicative of a problem safety flying an airplane. If anything, the decision to talk to a therapist to process emotional stress, instead of participating in avoidance or dangerous behavior, is the extremely healthy ego-less choice. In my life, I have *nothing* to lose by talking to a therapist, even *unnecessarily* -- except apparently a better chance at an FAA-class-3-medical.
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As for the "explaining everything"...
If I filled out the class-3 medical today, assuming I got the questions right, it would look like this:
Medications in 6 months (allegra - infrequently for pet allergies, sudafed - for a sinus cold, albuterol sulfate - infrequently for allergy and sickness induced asthma, wellbutrin - which keeps me more motivated, but I could also stop taking) -- Doctor visits in 3 years (dentist, general doctor for physical and albuterol rx, bi-monthly checkins with my long term therapist who writes the Wellbutrin) -- ER visits ever (age 9 asthma attack at diagnosis, age ~32 kidney stones, age 36? - the explained ritalin event). -- Smoking? Never. Drinking. 2 drinks a month, over my entire adult life. Ever had substance abuse issues? No, never. Every taken prescription opiods? Yes, for kidney stones. Threw out most of them. Ever been accused or convicted of a non-traffic crime? no. Physical health issues? Mild Asthma. 2x kidney stones. elevated cholesterol. Stature? Fit and Athletic. Cardio health? Excellent. Eyesight? Nearsighted -3/-2.75. Slight astigmatism. Vision with corrective lenses? Excellent. Do I need bifocals to read? No. (not yet, but maybe in 3-5 years)
Any mental health diagnosis? Acute health events?..... This is where my complexity lies. So this is what I asked about.
I have two acute mental health events that led to seeing a doctor.. the one I explained where I kinda detached when my son was born, and in the process of trying to un-detached, I got a bad ritalin prescription. The other was an acute stress period exaggerated by lack of sleep during the most stressful part of my startup, for which a few days taking a sleep-aid (clonazapam) helped reset my sleep and got me back on track, I kept the prescription as-needed for 6-10 months, but didn't take much of it. I wasn't worried about the latter raising any eyebrows.
I didn't ask here about Wellbutrin, because I already know the answer.. the FAA doesn't like it. So if I wanted C3-medical, I would just stop taking it for six months and apply without listing it. Which I would totally do if that was the only issue.