My wife is very cautious about power equipment, but LOVES when we get to ride a waverunner
My wife rode with me on my motorcycle, once, and that was enough for her. We rented a Waverunner once while we were dating, and while she was driving, I fell off twice and jumped off once. Apparently no one told her "no wake jumping with a passenger".
I agree, I do not want a Harley or big cruiser. I had to look up 'naked' bike. That is what I am looking for. Something simple. Something that I sit upright on. I like how the Triumph looks but the nearest dealer is 2+ hrs away. My local dealers are Yamaha and Honda. Makes sense to me to look at those brands for local support. Looked at the CB500. Again I like how the Triumph looks. Shame that Honda, Yamaha don't have anything similar.
I see that ABS is an option on some of these bikes. Opinions?
As you can see lots of us have lots of opinions on what style of motorcycle is best. What you are talking about, a "naked" or a "standard" is what I like as well. Cruisers have a feet forward riding position that I don't care for, and sportbikes are too hunched over and put more weight on my wrists than I like. I had a Honda NT650, which is a 650 cc standard, put a plastic windshield and a Corbin saddle on it, and set off on a 5200 mile tour. Honda and Yamaha do make naked bikes, but they all have contemporary styling. The only Japanese bike I can think of that has traditional styling is the Kawasaki W800.
About a year and a half ago, I rented a Bonneville T100. I hadn't been on a motorcycle in 18 years, and I was a little concerned about its size and weight when I rented it, having not been on a bike in so long, and having to pull out onto Cobb Parkway, which is a very busy road, for my first ride in 18 years. I'm not quite 6 feet tall, and the Bonnie felt very comfortable. I suspect someone of your size would have no problem using a Bonneville as a first bike. The center of gravity is low as is the seat, bu the bike's big enough for a full sized man. I enjoyed my day on the Triumph and would rent one again. I wouldn't buy one because I prefer the feel of a V twin engine, when my time comes I'll be looking at the Suzuki SV650 and the Moto Guzzi V7.
On the ABS issue, if it's available, get it, if not, don't worry about it.