Driving defensively is a myth based upon ego, because you think you're smarter and safer than the other drivers. Yeah, it might have "saved" you from that accident one time but on the whole, most horrific and deadly car accidents happen so fast that there is nothing that can be done. If someone blows a red light and you're going through the intersection, you ain't avoiding the crash. Also, if you're sitting at a light and you're the third car in line, you really think watching your rear view mirror is gonna give you enough time to get out of the way once you realize the danger? I tend to disagree having seen expert crash reconstructs on reaction times, stopping distances, and recognition and appreciation of the danger.
That is ridiculous. Really. I’m amazed you think there is nothing one can do.
You can look look left and right going through a green light instead of straight ahead, oblivious.
I actually have, as a kid I chicago been at a red light, winter, few cars in front of me, seeing in my rear view a car that did not have time to stop, I drove off on the shoulder (he was still a ways behind and already skidding) and as I neared the car in front of me and got a look from that driver, he got hit. It’s why I mentioned it. It happened. Car did take a long time, it was very icy. Since I had trouble stopping, I was aware of it and checking for exactly that situation.
I’ve learned to not believe turn signals, and watch for the telltale dip of a cars hood if it veers.
you also have many accidents per year in snow, ice, fog, all because a driver was driving too fast for conditions. Being a defensive driver also means taking that into consideration. Slowing down or even pulling over if too bad. So it isn’t ego, it’s situational awareness.
I watch how other cars are behaving...if I see a car veering, or uneven speed, etc. I stay away from it, either keeping behind, or quickly as possible passing it while watching in case it veers. I prefer being behind though.
I’m not perfect or immune, but you can call it ego if you want, kinda silly but ok, I know I’m a better more defensive driver than some other people, and yeah, that CAN mean the difference.
You seem to advocate being slack, since it makes “no difference”. I mentioned already, there are of course instances where no matter what you are going to be in an accident, of course, but it’s really dumb to pretend nobody gets out of accidents because they are paying attention and driving defensively.
And certainly, I’m not always doing it, but way more than not.