The question I know many rotor and fixed wing pilots have asked themselves. I'm a 23 year old, recently graduated from college with a degree I "like" but am not passionately invested in. I have been off and on heli training for the past 5 years and don't know if I should pursue flying as a career or if it's better off as a hobby.
Now I know what everyones going to say, "if you love it then go for it" "its better than the 9 to 5" I've read other similar threads and they all sooner or later boil down to the career pilots who love the industry and have been in it for decades, telling people how great it is. I'm sure it's fantastic for those who are single, don't plan on having kids and have a loyal spouse, or the lucky few that managed to find a job with steady hours in the location they want to live. But I value at least some day to day consistency, family, and possibly kids when the time comes and I don't want to miss every anniversary or graduation because I'm on a 7/7 or 14/14 schedule. I would be willing to move if I found the right job but I don't want to relocate every season or every few seasons like I see a lot of pilots doing. It's stupid to go into a career just for the money or the fame, you also need to enjoy what you're doing. But I also think it's stupid to go into a career without much life balance and winding up single at 40 or twice divorced with step kids.
Is it realistic for me to go into the industry with expectations of having a family life or should I cut my ties and stay private? I understand there are a lot of variables on all of these factors but I'm just looking for some honest answers on if my expectations are feasible.
Disclaimer I don't have anything against the industry or the people that work in it. I understand the versatility of helicopters is what leads to such random jobs schedules and I'm sure there are plenty of people who love their jobs and have great family lives, this isn't meant to bash the pilot dads out there. Just looking for some advice
Thanks for all the help
-Andrew
Now I know what everyones going to say, "if you love it then go for it" "its better than the 9 to 5" I've read other similar threads and they all sooner or later boil down to the career pilots who love the industry and have been in it for decades, telling people how great it is. I'm sure it's fantastic for those who are single, don't plan on having kids and have a loyal spouse, or the lucky few that managed to find a job with steady hours in the location they want to live. But I value at least some day to day consistency, family, and possibly kids when the time comes and I don't want to miss every anniversary or graduation because I'm on a 7/7 or 14/14 schedule. I would be willing to move if I found the right job but I don't want to relocate every season or every few seasons like I see a lot of pilots doing. It's stupid to go into a career just for the money or the fame, you also need to enjoy what you're doing. But I also think it's stupid to go into a career without much life balance and winding up single at 40 or twice divorced with step kids.
Is it realistic for me to go into the industry with expectations of having a family life or should I cut my ties and stay private? I understand there are a lot of variables on all of these factors but I'm just looking for some honest answers on if my expectations are feasible.
Disclaimer I don't have anything against the industry or the people that work in it. I understand the versatility of helicopters is what leads to such random jobs schedules and I'm sure there are plenty of people who love their jobs and have great family lives, this isn't meant to bash the pilot dads out there. Just looking for some advice
Thanks for all the help
-Andrew