Agreed Kent.
There's also way too much, "We can't allow you in our shop for insurance reasons, no matter how well you know how to turn a screwdriver and follow simple directions," too.
I keep hearing these stories of the mythical IA who will work with owners. We haven't found one yet, and three shops we've approached simply refuse to do owner-assisted Annuals or any other work. They do a good job, but having grown up working on everything I own, with a Great Depression farmer grandfather who fixed everything rather than throw it out, and a father who does the same...
Not being able to help take inspection covers off, and get down and dirty with the airplane, really peeves me off.
Example: The screws on the airplane are old and some are loose. I'd like to get a nice set of stainless steel replacements and work my way methodically around the aircraft with a mechanic checking behind me later, and just replace them all. I don't think it's unreasonable to do this for anyone with a brain bigger than a grape seed, but to do it here at any of the shops we've used, I'd have to beg really hard, and they'd still say no. Liability.
It may just mean that long, long, term... Building is in my future. But I don't build my cars, and work on those. And I know when I'm out of my league and hire a mechanic on them.
Anyway, still looking for that friendly A&P/IA who works with owners at our airport. I think they keep them somewhere near the Unicorns and Leprechauns. ;-)