@LongRoadBob, likely at this point your only recourse will be through litigation in a civil suit.
Unfortunately, the Italian mentality is that it’s no big deal: you did it to yourself and you’re alive. How bad could it be.
You really hit the nail on the head here.
First off,maps I wrote a while back, Salty and others here we totally correct, and it may be one of the dumbest decisions I ever made not to demand an ambulance immediately after the incident.
I am having a hard time letting this go. I had problems after but have been checked by doctors he and they see no damage now. I don't know if it is in my head, or what, but I contacted an Italian lawyer (he's working on contingency) but he wrote a very understated letter to the hotel, and the response was from the hotels attorney "what damages? He was moved to another room right after, and it was over" (they had tried to keep us in the same room, but the ammonia smell was too strong...reluctantly when I demanded it they moved us, but that isn't important.
So I've been checked. I went to doctors, got X-rayed, etc. and again doctors say they see no special damage. I don't understand because I've been breathing for 61 years, and I noticed a difference in my breathing from up unti the inhalation/choking, and after that was like a light switch.
To me, the hotels negligence, two different instances before the incident where if they were trained would have prevented it, and the violence of that incident....to me it is like saying if three crazed employees of the hotel snuck in my room and water boarded me for five minutes....hey "no permanent damage, we stopped, and he's ok...so what is the problem?"
But I was stupid. Actually I was in shock. More than I realized. I felt embarrassed for having been gassed. I didn't want to ruin the vacation for my wife, and since all I read said any damage was already done...I felt like what is the point. It was terrible judgement on my part. I have read of other incidents, recently in England where thy call in the fire dept. ambulances, evacuate the building etc. and I think the hotel had a duty to call in these no matter what but...
I am having a tougher time letting this go. My lawyer wrote a pretty understated letter, no entails, asking for damages, as I said. He wants me to go to a doctor to get a note from them...I am telling him there is no "note" to get. No doctor is going to hear my experience back in October and write any note that would be basis for damages. They couldn't put it down as cause and effect.
There are times, usually when I wake up in the morning where I get some of the same feeling as if it just happened a few days ago...clump in my throat, nausea, breathing not feeling like it is normal. It goes away after a time.
The letter back from the hotel attorney of course makes it seem as if I just "smelled some ammonia" and so what. No big deal. I'm having a hard time understanding how through negligence they exposed me to a deadly gas, I literally thought I was going to die as I totally lost breathing, and even when it came back later the worst maybe was the burping...and the stinging in the eyes (I can't quantify that either...but feel as if my sight was affected too), etc. and my lawyer doesn't make these points. He pointed out none of this.
My problem is letting it go. I think they should have comped our stay there at the very least, but it isn't about the money. What I really want is for them to "pay" in that they get into trouble for their negligence and response after, and that they obviously wanted to keep it all quiet.
But for my own peace of mind I wonder if I am better off just dropping it and letting it go.
I'm just having a hard too doing that. Sorry for rambling some here.