I'm so fed up with this BS response. STOP telling people not to worry about what to say. I know what you're TRYING to do......."don't be so concerned with phraseology that you let it get in the way", I get it. everyone freakin gets it. you are right. but he seems to be, as others have done when you've thrown this garbage their way, asking 'WHAT INFORMATION, TO WHOM do I relay it to, and how do I do so without stumbling and fumbling and clogging up the radio?'. There is NOTHING wrong with asking this question, especially here on the forum. and there IS a requirement, as usually presented on ATIS..........."advise direction of flight and requested altitude blah blah".
there may not be a REQUIREMENT on language, but there is a proper way and a bad way. if you want want examples of bad ways, watch Mr. Aviation101's videos. if you are flying into charlie/bravo or other uncharted territory (for you) then ASK HERE and you'll most likely get an answer that will HELP YOU with that process. will it meet some sort of documented lingo? NO, because as bob points out, there isn't any, but if you are unsure, PLEASE CONTINUE TO ASK HERE so people can advise you what is widely accepted practice, and so you will feel more comfortable when you actually get in that situation.
bob's point is "just ask in english if you aren't sure". and I hope WE ALL GET THAT. as for who to call and what to say, the rest of us have answered that question for you.
bob, no disrespect, but maybe you just need to read between the lines a little better. I think this post was more a general process question than a word-for-word reference type question.