Shawn
En-Route
My dogs usually let me have 4 inches or so of my side of the bed.
Sounds about right.
My dogs usually let me have 4 inches or so of my side of the bed.
Don't take this wrong. Just like flying, YOU need training. Way more than the dog needs training.
I'm not sure why she is so anxious all the time. I guess I can understand being left in the crate all day is a bad thing because she's so energetic, and not being to burn that off or run it out would drive me crazy. I work days, she works nights. Which means that she's in the crate when I'm at work, and then when I get home I am up for a few hours and she's out, then I sleep and she goes in the crate. Then my GF is asleep when I'm at work which means that she's in the crate again. It's an awful thing to do, and I don't think it's fair by any sense of the word.I feel sorry for the dog. Dogs aren't toys, they're family. They crave companionship. My dog was literally abandoned. A live-in couple split up, "he" took one of the two dogs and then "she" placed her two kids with relatives while trying to sell the house. She came by just long enough to feed Cocoa. I adopted her when she jumped through my car window (true story). Now she has severe separation anxiety. I've left her in the car while I went into the ER to check on my mother. When I came out, she had eaten half the interior and headliner trying to get out to find me. Did the same to screen doors and wooden window slats. Afraid of being abandoned again. I bought a crate to save the car on hospital visits (can't leave her alone in the house), but it had such a bad effect on her I only used it once. She was an angel sent from heaven one month and one day after my previous dog died, same exact weight as he was when I found him at the airport. It's easier for me to adapt to her than try to make her change for me. Don't know what else I can tell you.
dtuuri
I think you hit on some key points. I get frustrated because she just doesn't listen to me when I tell her to do things. Even a simple command like sit is hard to actually get to work, harder to stick. Unless there's a treat involved - in which case you can drop it right in front of her and say stay and she'll not move an inch. In my mind, she knows what I'm asking her to do, she just doesn't care. Which upsets me for some reason.Overdrive,
You are not alone. Each dog is unique, like us, but.... it will help if you can remember what you are experiencing is an expression of anxiety... from an animal that cannot use logic or reason to calm itself down. It will have to learn through experience that "x" situation is "ok". In order for that to happen, the dominate human(s) have to remain calm. So... train when the pressure is off, have low expectations, and reward good behavior. I always kept a chalk bag (rock climbing kit) filled with kibble treats when working with our pup. You can use a clicker or just say, "good!" and immediately give the treat to reward the behavior you like. 15 seconds later, and the pup will not be able to connect the reward to the desired behavior.
Crates: If a dog is feels safe and is comfortable in the crate, there is nothing wrong with crating them.
Energy: It seems that you all could benefit from a conistent exercise routine (for the pup) before you leave ... and a good, long exercise before friends arrive (careful if you live where it is warm). A tired dog is always a better dog than a stir crazy one. Good luck!
- remember this: basically, the pup is dependant on you (two) for everything (food, water, when it can go potty, when it can run, what work it gets to do, affection, and companionship...etc,etc,etc). If you think about that dynamic, that is a lot of power to wield over a living being, keeping that perspective may help you to be gracious, giving, and humble in your relationship.
Don't take this wrong. Just like flying, YOU need training. Way more than the dog needs training.
8 weeks, one night a week, with a professional dog trainer, is the bare minimum for both human learning dog behavior and dog learning to listen to human for a "newbie" to dog ownership, IMHO.
That'll get you thru basic obedience. To get to to AKC Canine Good Citizenship certification for you and the dog, will take more.
The vast majority of dog behavior problems are rooted in the human's misconceptions about dogs. If the dog is ignoring you completely, you've already lost Alpha status in their pack and/or the dog doesn't respect you as their leader, whichever training methodology you feel like describing it as with human words.
Ultimately the dog is an individual but a dog without a pack leader does whatever it feels like doing, and you're there right now.
My advice, stop trying to learn to fly on your own and get a pro to teach you how. You and the dog will be better off for it. Ask your vet for a trainer recommendation.
Oh god not another pet. I like cats but she'd probably destroy one if it was in the same house.Overdrive, get your dog a cat.
I am hoping it's not too late to fix the whole thing. She's a relatively young dog (year or two I think?) and I hope she's not set in her ways. That or unable to accept not doing what she wants to do.Exactly. Doggie school doesn't train the dog...it trains the human how to train the dog. Go once and you'll never have to go again...probably...
Look at this face. Even not being a die-hard dog person, I still like that face.
Our experience with rawhide is that it creates incredibly stinky gas/loose poops. YMMV.I don't know if this has been mentioned, but make sure she has rawhide chews to knaw on.
Exactly. Doggie school doesn't train the dog...it trains the human how to train the dog. Go once and you'll never have to go again...probably...
I may book some time with my trainer for learning how to teach in a new type. Doggy training BFR?
Speaking of faces. This is one of the most special dogs I ever had.
We lost him a couple years back
Bloodhounds are awesome dogs.
2nd the nylabone.
Uh, I used to buy that in the cans, but it made my dog sick once. I only gave her half a can for supper, so I got the other half out of the fridge and took a good whiff. Whew! It smelled really bad! So, I did research (not easy at all) and found that the food was processed by a company, Simmons, in Arkansas. They had me Fedex the remainder to them at their cost for analysis. I never heard back and never bought the stuff again either.I feed our dogs "4 Health".
Hmmm, thanks for that. Maybe I won't try them again after all. My previous dog broke a tooth on a rawhide chew and his root canal cost me $700.Regarding nylabones & rawhides.
I quit buying nylabones at least ten years ago when I had two dogs crack teeth and the vet blamed the nylabones saying that they were too hard.
Uh, I used to buy that in the cans, but it made my dog sick once.
Don't take this wrong. Just like flying, YOU need training. Way more than the dog needs training.
8 weeks, one night a week, with a professional dog trainer, is the bare minimum for both human learning dog behavior and dog learning to listen to human for a "newbie" to dog ownership, IMHO.
That'll get you thru basic obedience. To get to to AKC Canine Good Citizenship certification for you and the dog, will take more.
The vast majority of dog behavior problems are rooted in the human's misconceptions about dogs. If the dog is ignoring you completely, you've already lost Alpha status in their pack and/or the dog doesn't respect you as their leader, whichever training methodology you feel like describing it as with human words.
Ultimately the dog is an individual but a dog without a pack leader does whatever it feels like doing, and you're there right now.
My advice, stop trying to learn to fly on your own and get a pro to teach you how. You and the dog will be better off for it. Ask your vet for a trainer recommendation.
Yeah, actually me three. I don't buy them for her anymore for similar reasons, but I thought it was 'cause she can gulp one down the size of her head with knots on the end in like five minutes flat. Forgot about nylabones. My last dog chewed them, but they seemed to be really rough and sometimes sharp where chewed. I'm willing to give 'em another try for Cocoa.
dtuuri
The Kong Extreme products work better than Nylabone for heavy chewers. They're made of harder stuff (black colored) with some "give" and they go through the dishwasher well for cleaning.
My dog made a Kong Extreme into little pieces within a day. But he is less of a chewer now.
My best tip is probably for treats- just buy the cheapest package of hot dogs at the grocery store(I find them for $1), cut them up into smaller pieces, and put them in a zip-lock or tupperware bag. The dogs love them and it's probably better meat than what you get in even the premium dog treats anyway.
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Alright, folks, I need some help.
We've got an 7 year old Beagle / Bassett mix that we rescued about three years ago.
We've never really cared if she's on furniture or not. The couch and recliner are two of her "safe spots," and are important as she's by nature a skittish dog.
A couple weeks ago she started limping on one of her hind legs. The vet says it's impossible to know for sure without an MRI, but it's possible that she tore or strained her ACL. We're not supposed to let her run or jump while we see if it will heal on its own or if she'll need surgery. She's actually shown quite an improvement since that first visit. The problem is that I can't think of any way now to keep her off the furniture. I feel like since I've never prohibited her from jumping up on the couch, chair, or bed before that I can't all of a sudden start disciplining her for doing so.
What can I do that's not just throwing out my couch, chair and bed to train her that the furniture is off-limits now?
Alright, folks, I need some help.
We've got an 7 year old Beagle / Bassett mix that we rescued about three years ago.
We've never really cared if she's on furniture or not. The couch and recliner are two of her "safe spots," and are important as she's by nature a skittish dog.
A couple weeks ago she started limping on one of her hind legs. The vet says it's impossible to know for sure without an MRI, but it's possible that she tore or strained her ACL. We're not supposed to let her run or jump while we see if it will heal on its own or if she'll need surgery. She's actually shown quite an improvement since that first visit. The problem is that I can't think of any way now to keep her off the furniture. I feel like since I've never prohibited her from jumping up on the couch, chair, or bed before that I can't all of a sudden start disciplining her for doing so.
What can I do that's not just throwing out my couch, chair and bed to train her that the furniture is off-limits now?
Yes. I used an inclined sit-up board as a ramp when my previous dog was having trouble.Build a ramp to the couch. If her leg s bothering her she will stick to that spot and not jump in the chair. Finding her in the chair is a sign of getting better.
Yeah stairs. I could not teach my shephard to use the stairs next to the bed. For several years I would put him up on the bed. Towards the end, he skipped it all together.Yeah, ramp. We had to put stairs next to the bed when the Husky got about 10 or 11 years old... She lasted until 16. By about 14 she decided getting up the stairs was too much effort and adapted to snoozing on a rug nearby.
I like to get in her mind, a few steps ahead. She is 11 months.
I like to get in her mind, a few steps ahead. She is 11 months.