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For effective flight training, you'll need to find a CFI you have a good relationship with. So, I recommend starting from the assumption that he or she is not some kind of crook out to milk you.
Be prepared to entrust the answers to questions like "whether I am competent/ready" to his or her judgement as an instructor. You're already trusting them with your safety, why not their judgement?
Assessing *your* judgment and attitude towards safety is part of the call they have to make. The call they are trained to make, to entrust you with a responsibility sealed with their signature, or not. So be nice. And listen.
It takes as long as it takes, and you can't take it personally. Everyone is different. Everyone hits different hurdles.
If you have a CFI with whom you don't have a relationship like this, then switch instructors.
</end platitudes>
For effective flight training, you'll need to find a CFI you have a good relationship with. So, I recommend starting from the assumption that he or she is not some kind of crook out to milk you.
Be prepared to entrust the answers to questions like "whether I am competent/ready" to his or her judgement as an instructor. You're already trusting them with your safety, why not their judgement?
Assessing *your* judgment and attitude towards safety is part of the call they have to make. The call they are trained to make, to entrust you with a responsibility sealed with their signature, or not. So be nice. And listen.
It takes as long as it takes, and you can't take it personally. Everyone is different. Everyone hits different hurdles.
If you have a CFI with whom you don't have a relationship like this, then switch instructors.
</end platitudes>