I am not aware of one document listing all those. If there was, it would be huge. I mean, a literally all-encompassing document would have every kind of wake turbulence advisory, traffic advisory, instructions to reporting a compulsory reporting point, loss of radar contact instructions, oceanic crossings, issuing speed restrictions (in Mach number too!), on and on. Obviously you don't need all that to effectively mimic ATC for training purposes. I'd say for most CFII work, the following ATC instructions will get 90 percent of the work done. And of course, you can always (and should) contact ATC to get real practice.
Assigning headings and altitudes
Approach clearances when getting vectors (PTAC)
Approach clearances when not getting vectors ("Cross XXXXX at or above Y,YYY, cleared ZZZ approach")
IFR clearances (CRAFT)
Holding instructions
Frequency changes (if you get this deep into being realistic) "Change to advisory frequency approved, report IFR cancellation this frequency or with Flight Service...."
I do try to be as accurate as possible, though admittedly I have a "slight" advantage having been an actual radar-facility-rated controller in the USAF. However, as you know, even "real" ATC doesn't get the phrasing right all the time, so a little ambiguity can be good for practice (makes them ask questions like they should of real ATC).
