I live in Southern California
Welcome! What part? There's a pretty vibrant and active GA community out here, especially at MYF. Where are you based?
For example I'm surrounded by Bravo airspace but never received a clearance to fly through it. (CFI didn't think students belonged in B).
Ugh. This seems to be sort of common, at least around here. Our club FB page even had a thread on it. I can understand not endorsing your student for a XC through it.. but to earn a license to fly an airplane without *any* Bravo experience is crazy in my book. Especially in Southern California. But really actually, it's not that scary. Like someone else said, just get on flight following, make sure you have permission to enter the Bravo, and follow their directions (IE, keep the heading and altitude they told you to ACS standards). For how busy SoCal is the ATC guys here are some of the friendliest and most easy going.
First, if you are apprehensive, leave the friends home for a while.
I could not agree more. I feel like a lot of people bring a friend because they're nervous, so somehow having someone else in the plane is going to help, it's a psychological safety blanket.. but really, it's just a distraction and God forbid anything goes wrong you now are responsible for someone else's son / daughter / dad / mother etc. Plus, it's good to get sharp before you bring friends, you may miss something in the run up, forget a checklist item, etc., if you are busy talking to Timmy in the right seat. Go solo and give yourself small missions.. redo your long cross country first, then pick an airport a little further. If you are at KMYF for example then Camarillo is great.. then you have San Luis Obispo little beyond.. SBP is a great decently long cross country.. just give yourself missions to fly, each time expanding your comfort zone
Might hold off on that for a bit. Depending on visibility I've been out there where thanks to haze or whatever I could not actually see the island. Intimidating flying out to sea not seeing land. Psychologically you don't want to put someone fresh and new in a position where they may freak out.. if they're brand new. Plus, that airport, while the runway is perfectly long for most SE GA, does look intense from the air and (until the repave it) is is pretty fair shape.. many people come in high and fast and end up going around, or bending metal. Unfortunately bent metal is common there, I feel like we get at least one bang up there every year
Think of yourself as a professional
YES!!
I’m surprised as a new PPL myself that nobody has suggested a program to keep the basic skills alive - stalls, tight turns, precautionary landings, glide approaches, simulated engine out etc...
I think the thinking is that you JUST did all this training and passed your checkride, you probably are safe with these things.. nice as a PPL to pick some airport 75 miles away and just go fly there.. because you can. Depending how often you fly it is good though to practice these maneuvers at least every 90 days or so. Anytime I'm up alone I'll throw in a few steep turns, falling leaf stalls, etc. A, they're loads of fun, and B, they do keep you sharp. Especially steep turns.. fun to see how well you can keep that altitude pegged, and how many 360s can you do with it pegged.