My intent in responding was not to make this about a you and I. If that got lost in translation I take responsiblity for my part in miscommunicating. Using quotes often makes it appear as a direct assault or pick-apart of one's words but however I only intended to use them to highlight a point (as I do below - so please forgive) based on words that you've written that is often unsaid in the light of the public (and for that I applaud you), with a little bit of interperpolation (reading between the lines) of my own.
I didn't mean to make this about you or I either. But it is relevent for it is person to person and individual by individual by which this whole issue is promulgated.
Frankly, I think it quite paternalistic of you to say such a thing. You've proven the point.
I'm afraid I don't understand. Please explain.
You wouln't dare part your lips or stroke your keyboard (for example) if the subject were about the German-Jewish Holocaust for fear of being labeled Anti-Semitic and relegated to the outskirts of intellectual society. But it's OK for a Caucaisian male (pardon the assumption if I am incorrect) to tell another people (who number approx 30-40 million now US Citizens) to "Get over it" without having 'walked a step in their moccasins'
I figured the holocaust would come up in this discussion. Vis a vis black slavery, how is the persecution of of the Jewish people different? To me they are the same. I would not speak against either persecution.
I am a caucasion male. Not being black I cannot say I know what it is to be black, no matter how many black friends I have, no matter how many intelligent discussions we have, no matter how well I listen. The same can be said for women issues. But being a human being I can say what that's like. I can say I understand we all have issues and we need to get past them. What it takes for an individual or a group of individuals with a shared background to get past there burdens is for them to decide. I think by holding on to such a thing, by making it part of tradition, by institutionalizing it, such a person has developed an affinity for that thing. If it is not in their best interest why hang on to it?
I have been here longer than your 3 generations, Sir, and IMHO those that enjoy the benefits of privilidge have (and continue to do so with well-trained blindness) bounced a check owed to those who are purposefully steered down the path of least resistance to make that continued privilidge possible.
We all stand on the shoulders of great men and women who came before us. I will strenously disagree for me to stand tall meant someone had to crouch down into a pit. Further, for me to enjoy success (in whatever form) that another was forced into a disagreeable condition. If I find a person in such a place I will offer a hand up and prolly ask why they were down there.
Speaking from personal experience, some persons have actually said they enjoy being there, that otherwise they would feel they are turning their back on their kin. My emotions aside, who am I to decide if it is right or wrong? Yet I do wonder do they think there is honor in sacrificing themselves for an innoble cause?
Current Generation Germans are not responsible for the Holocaust, yet they are paying reparations. There are taxpayer funded Holocaust museums in several major cities in America, yet America fought against German brutality. See the inequality in the illustration?
I'm not following your illustration.
{quoteSen. Kerry in his Presidential Campaign was asked about a proposal for
a study on reparations in America. His
White Moderate response was that it would 'only serve to divide the country'. According to him, it was
not even worth an academic dialogue! Let's not
waste resources determining the root cause of why we have this problem in America (the land of the Free). Let's get on with our "negative peace in the absence of tension". Lawd knows...we don't need none o' dem' Rebel Rousers finding out the truth, so once a year in February we'll just tell em' that Lincoln freed the slaves and MLK had a dream and that will be enough.[/quote] Aside from the fact that I think Kerry a maroon, he is but one example. Please do not read that as my challenge for you to find other examples. To do so would detract from the topic here. The rest of your comments are you getting emotionally wild. Whoa back, good buddy.
I think this is why Blacks are underrepresented in Aviation. The quantitative data to illustrate my point is self-evident.
Ok, glad you said that. To me, this whole topic boils down to one thing. Whether black, asian, female, or a combo of those, etc, if one becomes a pilot (or business owner, rock star, mechanic, etc) is personal choice. Determination to succeed, ability, intrinsic motivation, and on and on...it is those things which determine where and by what means one ends up in life. We can all cry 'woe is me', my crap is no less actual than yours. We can offer help and giudance and mentoring opportunities.
Bottom line is what I understand is there are people more than glad to keep yoou down. And sometimes those people are within our group. I call them Sandpaper People. Maybe it's a whole group acting against you or it may be a person here and ther along the way, or maybe they are from your own family. "Buck up", as they say. Become the role model if that is important to you and yours.