Thanks for everyone giving their inputs, as of right now I've decided to take a small break from flying to really gauge the situation as well as how I'm taking it. Seems like a combination of confidence, study habits, and the school/CFI is adding up to the overall problem as well as I want to make sure that flying is what I want to do.
Something I'd like to ask is on building better study habits. I think to what I can assess, the reason why I'm not preforming is because studying feels like its more of me "glossing" over information, rather than it being a challenge in retaining it, Wanted to know any suggestions to finding what works for me instead of reading blankly at the PHAK for an hour.
As of now, I'm looking into having a meeting with both CFI's as well as the director to really talk on where improvements needs to be made, but as guest user had said it's likely that I have a rep at the school and a fresh start could be what'll work. However as much as I'd want to keep flying for a carreer, if it comes down to me not being cut to fly then I think I have a fairly open mind to understanding, but I'd rather peruse other options before getting to that.
(Also, having read a few replies I see some things in my post may be missing and I'm just not understanding how to explain, if anything seems out of place please ask)
I wouldn't stop, if you must, don't stop for long. Sounds like you want it, one thing you need to do is persevere. I think you'll get it done.
The study thing, that's an excellent question. Once again, it depends on what materials you are using. The FAA materials are great, but for me, I need tests to make sure I'm retaining what I need. I often read something, feel I understand it, but when I do a test the holes in my knowledge are readily apparent. I break it down into 3 buckets. Rules and regulations are one, then things like navigation, systems, operations, things like that are another. Finally the actual how to fly an airplane is the last.
For the first two, something like a Sporty's, King's or other course was best for me. I would study the material, take the practice quizzes. When I consistently score in the upper 90s, I feel I'm good.
For the third, actually flying the plane, again the King or Sporty's is great. There aren't really quizzes for that stuff, but there are little nuggets in there beyond the basic instruction that are priceless IMO. Especially for students. Control of the aircraft requires a lot of conscious thought to start, but fades into the background when you've got it. Thinking of it in terms of needing to add 15 degrees of aileron and 2 inches of right rudder is useless. Flying is more of doing what needs to be done. King summarizes it very well in his videos. On his landing video he says something to the effect of "Students trying to figure this out ask, 'how much rudder do I add?' or 'how much aileron do I add?'" "The answer is, 'just enough'.
Rather than worrying about how much input is needed. Add the input until you get the desired result. If you run out of control, then you need to figure something else out.
It's important to understand why and when to do things, but at the end of the day, on different days, different things or different amounts of inputs are required. It sounds impossible, but it's what makes it so rewarding when you figure it out.
It's important to understand when to use what control, that's best figured out at home with out all the stressors of flying. Once you understand and have these things committed figuring out how to do them is much easier.
Chair flying is the best way to commit these things you have studied to memory. Picture the scenario in your head. For instance, strong right crosswind. Then start on final from 500 or so feet (in your head) and ride it down. You are crabbed until it's time to slip. I like to transistion and about 25 feet. Starting out I would do it at about 100 feet. The actual height is unimportant, just give yourself ample time to keep the plane aligned before the flare. So chair flying, you get to think it out. The plane is pointed right, time to transition to slip, step on left rudder, align nose, add right aileron to arrest the side motion. And so on. Do this for each scenario. Spend a half an hour at time going through it in your head. It will really help.