I used to be adamantly pro-droid and anti-Apple. I feel like in years long past, droid devices were much more secure, configurable, open-source, etc than the ubiquitous iProducts. But as the years ticked by and Google grew as a global cyber-superpower(and consumers grew less informed and more complacent), I feel like they offer much less privacy nowadays than my current iPhone 12. I've seen a few too many articles and reputable youtubers highlighting Google's increasingly nefarious ways of harvesting your sweet, sweet lucrative data.
My scales tipped full-deflection when I started noticing how many "features" were opt-out instead of opt-in. I.e. privacy-usurping "services" such as Google sending EVERYTHING you type on that phone to a server, silently keylogging all texts, web searches, private conversations, logins, everything, unless you knew to dig many layers deep in convoluted settings to disable it.
And on top of all that, droid devices(at least the nicer ones) have been just as user-unservicable as Apple products. Not to mention the OS's are pretty much functionally the same lately. Aside from the special breed of nerds that need to run DOOM on everything with a a screen, I imagine very few even go that far into customizing settings anymore. Hell, I haven't even changed ringtones in years.
So when it came time to finally replace my iPhone 6 this year, I opted to stay on the iWagon and and be able to use ForeFlight. At least Apple seems more upfront about privacy-related issues and changes. I have no doubt that they have full view of everything i do on my phone, but I still have Siri disabled and don't use any Alexa/IoT devices. Despite all of the above I feel no need for me or anyone else to talk to my garage doors/tv/lamps/dishwasher.
TL;DR - Android is no longer any better than Apple from privacy, serviceability, or longevity standpoints, and I no longer see any reason to be rabidly in one camp or the other.