You don't see it on car forums
was going to say this but someone beat me to it:
on average 3,287 deaths a day
..that would be a lot of threads!
You will see crashes come up on some occasions though. Years ago when I was bigger into the off roading thing you would see a thread pop up on the FJCruiser forums if someone had a crash they could learn from. Typically involved something while four wheeling, but occasionally you would have the guy just slip off the highway and got in an accident. People generally posted these mainly as learning opportunities, and other times just as a testament to the vehicle "can't believe I survived rolling down that 250 foot cliff" -
like this guy here who ended up with his
own thread
But no, you won't see car forums with threads about that person in the Corolla who just took the ramp too fast one night and hit black ice and crashed. Plus, there are a lot of accidents / incidents that occur and don't show up on this forum, or get one page or replies. It's the crazier crashes (the twin in FL, ERAU losing a wing, etc.) that get the longer threads, where there is more to learn from or less of a consensus on the cause
Why do we do it?
We're all aware of the risks and the "dangerous sport" stigma our hobby carries.. so when someone crashes I think there is a genuine curiosity to find out what happened or what caused it so we feel safer and better about it ourselves. It helps you emotionally mitigate the risk. Like that guy who crashed his twin in the fog in FL.. I think most here wrote that accident off as "not a real data point" since most people wouldn't have attempted a takeoff in those conditions
Even crashes that the pilot can do very little about, like the wing failure at ERAU, you tend to see an emotional desire to blame it on maintenance, Piper, ERAU's training culture, or whatever.. to still absolve ourselves from potentially making that same mistake and having the same fate