I can't trace the path you followed to your conclusion.
At the base level there are two airplanes with the requirement to see and avoid each other. Has been before, still is, always shall be.
You saw a target with your ADS-B "In" hardware. You avoided him. Hopefully you'd have seen him with your Mark I eyeballs, too, but in any case, on-board traffic detection appears to have helped.
You can't take ownership of or make assumptions about the other pilot's actions. Whether he saw you or not, whether you appeared as a target to him or not on his display, is unknown.
We have to see and avoid. ADS-B should help us do that, over time. We can't rely on it instead of visual separation, but overall, it should help.