Having been in the aircraft ownership game a long time, and having been burned by trying to go non-standard routes with boutique manufacturers, I am firmly of the belief you should go with the market leader whenever possible. To that end there are two excellent choices at both extreme ends of the field. One is the GTX345, which I consider to be the Ferrari of the ADS-B Out transponders. It does everything: 1090ES, IN/OUT, bluetooth, AHRS, and some minor extra functions (timers, etc. - I don't use them, but some might.) It can also be remotely controlled from a GTN-series Navigator (also what I purchased.) This is widely considered to the be the best, most robust OUT solution for GA right now, perhaps with the L3 Lynx coming in a close second. (I prefer Garmin because, as previously stated, they're the market leader, and also the GTX345 plays nicely with the rest of my Garmin panel.)
The other end of the spectrum is the GDL-82, for minimum compliance. This might be right up your alley. It's OUT only, no IN, and piggybacks off your existing transponder. That's fine for most, perhaps a bit kludgy because, well, it's piggybacking, after all. But it should work fine. You'll need to provide your own IN source, which other than perhaps being a little unwieldy with portable electronics sitting on the glareshield, power cables, etc., will give you the same functionality as any other IN solution. Pretty inexpensive, and any shop can install them.
I was initially in the market for the Stratus ESGi but I can't think of a good reason to go with one vs. one of the two aforementioned units. I'd go with the very best, from the market leader, or the bargain basement option, also from the market leader. The other products don't give you enough of an advantage to be strong competitors to those options, again in my biased opinion only.
You do want to think about how this will play out down the road in terms of residual value. I would lean toward the GDL-82 in your case. It's a Garmin OUT product, and it'll pay for itself someday when you sell the plane, most likely.