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  1. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    I had no clue about Princesspilot until she was mentioned a few posts ago. I've heard disaster stories about mail-order brides so its not exactly something I'm keen on trying. I have heard of men completely moving countries and going to Asian and settling down and finding wives (passport bros...
  2. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    Sounds like you've been through quite a bit man, props to you for continuing the journey. It is very odd how we focus on the 10% that's not good but ignore the majority of good things. I have two sisters, neither have kids. @Lindberg I'm stuck here more/less. I've got business to run and...
  3. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    It's definitely not my target market but one can't help but feel like most women here are like that at this point. I agree with you 100%. I guess how does one get out of this funk is the question and the main point of this whole post :smilewinkgrin:
  4. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    Thanks man, that is actually a recent photo of me! And although I do work in finance and make good money, I'm not 6'5" or have blue eyes or have a trust fund (not that I know of, at least) and so I don't really make the cut when it comes to LA TikTok women :frown2:
  5. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    Absolutely! Sadly, I think it's a common phenomenon that can have lasting ramifications for all members of the family. Better believe it man. I get very, very, very, very few likes to my profiles on Bumble, Hinge, and Tinder. Bumble got me a few women wanting marriage/kids ASAP, Hinge got me a...
  6. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    Cheers, always great to meet a fellow equestrian! You definitely understand the dynamics in the horse world with respect to women. I'd add one more group which can be found in certain barns and that is college girls who have no interest in a relationship whatsoever but even then, I'd still have...
  7. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    I have my Friday, Saturday, and Sunday nights free most weeks. I can also take most Saturdays off if I schedule it ahead of time. I think I can definitely fit another person in my life. I don't mean to sound like an ******* and I do understand what you're saying but I'm not some selfish guy on...
  8. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    I agree with you completely and that is why I want someone to share my life with: friends, a woman whom I can one day call my wife, and eventually kids.
  9. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    A huge amount of my time goes to horseback riding which is what I've been doing for a decade now. I've got guitar practice an hour a day (been playing for 12 years), I do improv once a week for three hours (been at that for 6 months) and I dance three times a week with my trainer (been dancing...
  10. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    I definitely understand the rush that 30+ women are in and I don't think they're crazy for being in such a rush but I just can't wrap my head around the idea of ME rushing into marriage/kids just because she's on a biological timeline. I feel like that's setting up the relationship for failure...
  11. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    I agree with you on this based on my experience with women so far past the age of 30. The few that I dated earlier this year were in a rush to get engaged -> married -> kids and they didn't like that I wasn't keen on rushing that process. Aside from that, I have a few single female friends past...
  12. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    I'll be the first to admit I'm not perfect. I've had a lot of issues I've had to handle by myself for many years. I stuck around a very toxic family for too long thinking that I could help them and put a lot of my life on hold because of that and it was all in vain. I also spent too many years...
  13. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    I think I read somewhere recently that at 50% of women 30+ are single and not married. I guess I've got lots of crazy people to choose from :goofy:
  14. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    I might take you up on that! I've got friends in San Jose and there's a P40 Warhawk I'd like to take a flight in up in Sonoma so I could knock all that out in a long weekend :blueplane:
  15. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    I have and it no longer works that way. Bumble no longer requires the woman to make contact first, it's just like any other app at this point. Bumble and Hinge are seen as the apps for "serious" dating but they're all the same at this point unfortunately. You have to pay for all of these as well...
  16. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    Thank you all for again for the kinds words and advice. Just to put a face to who I am, that is me in my profile pic :)
  17. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    The apps are absolutely miserable. I think the average male:female ratio on the apps is 10:1. I've met a few women off there but most wanted a marriage/kids ASAP. The rest turned out to be not what they're profiles indicated (looked completely different) including a few women looking to be sugar...
  18. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    Cheers, I appreciate all the great replies! I've read each one and I'm taking it all to heart. @SkyChaser I've put in a massive amount of effort to work on my communication/listening skills (I do live improv, public speaking, conflict resolution and body language classes, etc.) because I come...
  19. Sam7

    34, feeling lost, lonely

    Hey everyone, Still a complete amateur with respect to flying as I slowly chip away at my sport pilot license (hopefully private pilot one day). Anyways, I'm going through a rough patch right now and I thought I'd come here for some advice after reading a recent thread about marriage (you all...
  20. Sam7

    FAA Class 3 Medical

    I shall give this a try. I would hope they would give me more time since they short-changed me two weeks. One should be able to see the notice in the Medxpress portal but all I see is the date of the correspondence.
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