I’m not suggesting this is the right way at all but…the way I learned. I had been enthralled with airplanes since I was a little kid, by my teens I was wanting to build airplanes of my own design and studied obsessively, I also had side interests in restoring antique cars and could pull a 1950’s car’s engine, rebuild it, put it back into the car and drive it again in one day. (Engine leaning, carb heat, basically engine management was a non issue, flight dynamics was a non issue). it was not until I was in my early thirties that I reached a point in life I could say “nows the time” and took a payed in cash ground school course through a “flight school” program and passed the written. Life got busy and 4 years latter I finally had free time available again to do the flying part. I searched and finally found an older private instructor who would teach primary in a tail wheel (aeronca champ). It took a few sit down over coffee conversations, and some sit down and get grilled with questions conversations before we made a handshake deal on the way I wanted to learn. The agreement reach was “I want you to make sure I don’t kill myself trying to fly, I’ve studied the physics, I’ve been trained in the regulations, but I want to learn like the first pioneers of aviation did, apply what I know of the physics into action and try to develop the instinctual reaction to flying in the same way a person can instinctively ride a bicycle, I don’t want to think about what I’m doing I just want it to be a natural reaction, I ask that you only keep me from hurting/killing myself, I don’t care how many hours it takes” it took 48 hours of flight time for him to sign me off on solo, he gave me my tail wheel endorsement, and ask me what my schedule looked like so I could burn off my token solo time so he could call and schedule my check ride all at the same time. There was one base to final turn towards the end on a gusting turbulent day that he saved my life, and one demonstration at around the 30th landing that he offered a suggestion for feeling the three point landing. Other than that I was given only orders of what was to be done, be it turn on point, cross country navigating to another airport, chandels (that was tricky), it worked for me. It doesn’t fit with modern syllabus’s but there is something to be said about after they’ve been taught the basic principles letting them learn by experience, don’t let them get in over their head, but let them get close enough it gives them an adrenaline rush and they remember it forever/really enforcing the days lesson.